I then explained that I gathered how Germans (at least in Berlin) were domineering, yet friendly, assertive, but also timid. Perhaps it was the ever presence of authority in the form of police and if you didn't see them, you definitely heard the sirens.  Later in our conversation he would say, "I'm not sure. It's like they sense danger and appear out of nowhere!" Despite that, Berliners were also carefree like children at the playground or teenagers at a mall with unlimited funds. Even I was surprised to see open bottles at the park, on the train, and as I walked on rugged streets. My first instinct as an American was, "OMG!! You're going to get arrested!!" At the same time, I found order. People weren't even pushing others to get into the Bahn.  Is this real life?! 

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